Tuesday, July 18, 2006

FRIENDSHIP

I in my life, its not significant that how much time i have spent on the earth, i have always thought of friends as the thought that makes you believe you are there and that there is always someone who is making you important in every phase of life.


Yes it may seem steriotype to repeat what all say about friendship, but iam not going make the mistake to write some famous lines, of great people...its just going to be the experience i had about being a friend and having a friend for life...


I believe you have to strive to make yourself happy, but it becomes easier, if just make a friend...who would make you realise that you exist on the earth and that you carry with a lot of responsiblity...to carry your own self...to whatever makes you happy...not just by wealth but from deep within you.


The difficult task for every person is that...praising the other...being happy for the other...but the friend makes us take that small step, in making that big change in your life. No matter...how much time you take to make the it possible for your own benefit...the true friend stays there with you till the end...and will stay till you dont want him/her to be there...


Its like being too relaxed...you have someone there to think about your good and your bad...the improvement you need...its like the friend doesnt have a life of his own...and yes he does...he too has emotions...which start flowing now and then...he too cries out loud inside his heart...without making you have a clue about it...


Lucky is the person who has friends...and i respect the feeling...lets just be who we are for our friends...and not pretend...


Lets enjoy the moment and cherrish the thoughts...let time test us...we are ready...also hoping for the best...
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Friday, July 07, 2006

Endeavors

"To be or not to be" or "to do it or not to do it", no matter how confident a person is, there are times when one has to attempt somethings in life to get to the goal they want (we are talking about the people who have goals with them).
A person does perceive future in some or the other way, to make sure that the willingness to stay and the energy to live, doesn't die. This is what we call the attempt to make things happen in life. Yes, we do believe in destiny, but there are certain things that can be controlled by a single, individual person only. What he/she has in mind, what earnest effort he/she is going to put forward to reach that goal in life.
Yes i know i have started to sound very philosophical, but i guess there is no formula that says that, happiness is directly proportional to the things we achieve in life. Somethings are just above "just being happy".
The endeavors are like paths, yes i know you must have heard this line a hundredth time now, but it makes sense every single time we say it.Doesn't it? Yes it does.
A human has this tendency to strive for the most in the life that has been given to him. It takes hell lot of energy and will power to stay there, but it never comes in our mind to be staying alive. Yes it is a great feeling to live, and we are going through the same endeavor each and everyday. But we are not happy.
At the end of the day u are what u are, and you are the only person who should be proud of what u do in life. But there are times that u feel, someone else also should be there, to believe in you and make that extra effort to stand up to face the struggles in life, you want that person to collect you in totality, when just break down in pieces.
Conscientious efforts are always applauded, but they should have some mean behind them. The test is cleared when we know what are we here for and what is it that we want from ourselves. Yes that's what everyone wants to know from the eternal force. But there is no answer. Why, because, we have answers with us. Whom are we kidding here, "every action has a equal and opposite reaction", i know the reaction's force and quality may vary. It so happens sometimes that a person takes a lot of care and concentration in completing the task but then the results are not so impressive.
So that's the fact, accomplish something that you believe in and don't worry about the intensity or weight the word "endeavor" is putting on you. Just continue to live life the way you project it, and live with the burden, as if you were born with it. Build a new "you" in you, to challenge the endeavors in life...and hope for the best!!!
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