A person does perceive future in some or the other way, to make sure that the willingness to stay and the energy to live, doesn't die. This is what we call the attempt to make things happen in life. Yes, we do believe in destiny, but there are certain things that can be controlled by a single, individual person only. What he/she has in mind, what earnest effort he/she is going to put forward to reach that goal in life.
Yes i know i have started to sound very philosophical, but i guess there is no formula that says that, happiness is directly proportional to the things we achieve in life. Somethings are just above "just being happy".
The endeavors are like paths, yes i know you must have heard this line a hundredth time now, but it makes sense every single time we say it.Doesn't it? Yes it does.
A human has this tendency to strive for the most in the life that has been given to him. It takes hell lot of energy and will power to stay there, but it never comes in our mind to be staying alive. Yes it is a great feeling to live, and we are going through the same endeavor each and everyday. But we are not happy.
At the end of the day u are what u are, and you are the only person who should be proud of what u do in life. But there are times that u feel, someone else also should be there, to believe in you and make that extra effort to stand up to face the struggles in life, you want that person to collect you in totality, when just break down in pieces.
Conscientious efforts are always applauded, but they should have some mean behind them. The test is cleared when we know what are we here for and what is it that we want from ourselves. Yes that's what everyone wants to know from the eternal force. But there is no answer. Why, because, we have answers with us. Whom are we kidding here, "every action has a equal and opposite reaction", i know the reaction's force and quality may vary. It so happens sometimes that a person takes a lot of care and concentration in completing the task but then the results are not so impressive.